Please read the second Reminder before this one and request for a copy if you missed any. BismilLaahir Rahmaanir Raheem.
You are being pointed at for a haram relationship whiles other ladies are pointed for marriage because they are marriage materials. It's an insult even to your parents to let a guy come to you through the window and not the door. If you really value yourself, you will give real men the opportunity into your life and not boys who look like men😊. If he really loves you, he will have the courage to see your parents or guardian.
My sisters in Islam, I want u to be honest with yourselves and accept the reality. You are precious and this speciality of yours has been identified by ALLAH in the Qur'an. Don't give any guy the opportunity to play with your emotions and make you lose this speciality ALLAH has given you. If he can't come and ask for your hand in marriage from your parents and to taste you first, then ignore him. He ain't no man even though he looks like one. All he wants is to be in dark or in a room with you. Your principle should be "See dad and mum or no deal". This is how a true Muslimah should be. Not to count the number of boyfriends you have or had. Your modesty and decency determines how much care and respect you deserve. Not how "beautiful" people think you are and not by how much of your body you expose. Not by how many boyfriends you have and not by your clothes etc.
Qur'an clearly states that good men are for good women and vice versa.
You want a husband like Prophet Muhammad(Sallallahu alaihi wasallam), then be like Khadijah R.A and the rest of his wives.
I will find time for the brothers too in shaa Allah so relax sisters. If you enjoyed this or even worried bcs it affects you, still remember that Allah commanded us to remind each other and say the truth even if it affects ourselves.
*_We ask ALLAH to protect our sisters from falling into these category of sisters and forgive those already in such state in this blessed day_*. Aameen.