*🌻10 Examples of How Rasulullah Treated Children* (Part 2)
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*Shortening his Prayer for Crying Children*
Narrated ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abi Qatada: My father said, “The Prophet (ï·º) said, ‘ *When I stand for prayer, I intend to prolong it but on hearing the cries of a child, I cut it short, as I dislike to trouble the child’s mother* .’” (Bukhari)
Rasulullah (ï·º) loved praying, and he used to pray long prayers in private; yet, in public, he shortened his prayer for children so that their mothers would not feel sad. That’s the care and attention he took for children (and mothers).
*Praying with Children*
“The Messenger of Allah (ï·º) came out to us for one of the night-time prayers, and he was carrying Hasan or Husain. The Messenger of Allah (ï·º) came forward and put him down, then he said the Takbir and started to pray. He prostrated during his prayer, and made the prostration lengthy.” My father said: “I raised my head and saw the child on the back of the Messenger of Allah (ï·º) while he was prostrating so I went back to my prostration. When the Messenger of Allah (ï·º) finished praying, the people said: “O Messenger of Allah (ï·º), you prostrated during the prayer for so long that we thought that something had happened or that you were receiving a revelation.’ He said: ‘ *No such thing happened. But my son was riding on my back and I did not like to disturb him until he had enough.’”* (Sunan An-Nasai)
In this hadith, as in the last hadith, we see the concern of Rasulullah (ï·º) to not disturb children, even while praying. (We also see him praying with small children, as many parents do today.)
*Abu Umair’s Sparrow*
In one hadith:
The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) used to come to visit us. I had a younger brother who was called Abu ‘Umair by kunyah (nickname). He had a sparrow with which he played, but it died. So one day the prophet (May peace be upon him) came to see him and saw him grieved. He asked: *What is the matter with him?* The people replied: His sparrow has died. He then said: *Abu ‘Umair! What has happened to the little sparrow (nughayr)?* (Bukhari, Muslim, and a lengthier narration in Abu Dawud)
Scholars derive many (hundreds) of benefits and rulings from these ahadith. Of relevance here: Rasulullah spent time with children, and they were comfortable around him; he cared about them, and even their pets, and even tried to cheer them up when they were sad.
*The Dying Jewish Boy* .
A young Jewish boy used to serve the Prophet (ï·º) and he became sick. So the Prophet (ï·º) went to visit him. He sat near his head and asked him to embrace Islam. The boy looked at his father, who was sitting there; the latter told him to obey Abul-Qasim and the boy embraced Islam. The Prophet (ï·º) came out saying: “ *Praise be to Allah Who saved the boy from the Hellfire.”* (Bukhari)
Rasulullah (ï·º) took interest in where the boy was when he fell sick, although he was not a Muslim; he visited him; he encouraged him to become a Muslim, and was overjoyed when the boy accepted and was saved from Hellfire.
*Telling Them he Loved Them and Making Du’a For Them*
Narrated Al-Bara: I saw the Prophet (ï·º) carrying Al-Hasan (his grandson) on his shoulder an saying, “ *O Allah! I love him, so please love him.”* (Bukhari and Muslim, with another, longer narration in Bukhari)
Tell children you love them, and make du’a that Allah loves them too.
*The Infant who Urinated On Him*
Narrated ‘Aisha: The Prophet (ï·º) took a child in his lap for Tahnik (i.e. he chewed a date in his mouth and put its juice in the mouth of the child). The child urinated on him, so he asked for water and poured it over the place of the urine. (Bukhari)
From this hadith, we see that he (ï·º) took children into his lap; he made tahneek for them; and when they urinated on him, instead of getting angry, he simply took water and washed it off. How many of us react more severely to our children when they do less than this?
*Giving Advice: Ask Allah*
Finally, Rasulullah (ï·º) gave advice to Ibn Abbas (radiallahu anhumaa), a child who grew into a world-class scholar:
Ibn ‘Abbas narrated: “I was behind the Prophet (ï·º) one day when he said: *“O boy! I will teach you a statement: Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. When you ask, ask Allah, and when you seek aid, seek Allah’s aid. Know that if the entire creation were to gather together to do something to benefit you- you would never get any benefit except that Allah had written for you. And if they were to gather to do something to harm you- you would never be harmed except that Allah had written for you. The pens are lifted and the pages are dried.”* (Jaami’ At-Tirmidhi)
This statement which he told Ibn Abbas contains many points of benefit: aqeedah (belief in destiny), eman (faith in Allah) dealing with people, and understanding where the source of good and harm comes from. How many of us can give children encompassing advice like this?
As to the extent of asking, another hadith clarifies:
Thabit Al-Bunani narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ï·º) said: “ *Let one of you ask his Lord for his every need, until he asks Him for salt, and asks Him for the strap of his sandal when it breaks.”* (Jaami’ at-Tirmidhi)
You ask Allah Ta'ala for major things, and you ask Allah Ta'ala for minor things; nothing is beyond His capability to give, and nothing is too small or too big to ask. So ask!
May Allah make us among those who follow in the footsteps of rasulullah and raise righteous children, ameen.
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