SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
By
Fatimah Bint Sulaiman

He loves you
He cared for you
He called you every time.
He always checked on you
He promised to never leave you
He promised to stand by you no matter what
He was kind and handsome
He promised to marry you
BOOM!!! that day he asked for sex
You were shocked
You hesitated to agree, but
You later agreed co's you don't wanna make him angry...
You thought he was a good guy
You thought he will keep all his promises
You thought you gonna remain happy with him
You thought he will always treat you the same
You thought he's different.
YOU AGREED and he had sex with you
He saw you fully naked
He did whatever he wanted to do with you
You gave him all your pride and dignity and he was happy
YOU HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Then,
He started asking for more sex
He began to act strangely
He began to show less care
He began to get mad at you over little thing
He began to cheat
He began to use harsh words on you
and he began to see you as a disturbance to him,
You know WHY???
Just because you had nothing special to him anymore.
Just because you had nothing for him to crave for anymore,
Just because you seem so cheap to him.
Sweetheart, what were you thinking before??
Were you expecting him to treat you the same while you have nothing else special for him to crave?
Were you expecting him to value you While you have proven to be cheap to him???
Were you expecting him to stay after he has used you and gotten every exciting part about you??
What else would you have to offer???
What else would you have to be proud of??
He's gonna move on and start chasing other girls,
He's gonna move on like he has never had any relationship with you
He's gonna move on unaffected
He can't marry you anymore cos there will be nothing for him to be excited about co's he has gotten all the excitements married couples should be excited about??
Stop wondering where things went wrong, it's straight, things went wrong the day you let him had sex with you
Now, you are left with regrets,
Tears,
Broken heart,
Disappointments,
and Wonders.
Let me tell you this my dear,
Every guy is afraid of breaking up with a Lady he never had sex with, but once they have that sex, the fear is now on you to break up with him.
Sweetheart, it's far better to break up with him because you refused to have the sex than breaking up with him because you had the sex.
Remember, if he truly loves you he can patiently wait.
Don't agree even if your parents know him
Don't agree even if he has introduced you to his parent
Don't agree!!! I repeat, Don't agree!!!!
Guys are very good at faking feelings
I DON'T WANT YOU TO CRY FULL OF REGRETS.
And to those that already made such mistake,
It's okay,
Just be strong and never let that happen again.
Never trust any guy when it comes to sex!!!
NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.
my dear, that's your only weapon against those FAKE guys!!!
Note!!! NOT ALL GUYS ARE THESAME BUT ONLY LITTLE ARE DIFFERENT. ( so to be at the safer side, assume all of US are the Same. 

May Allah guide you ladies all to the right path 
Aameen! N d guys


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