HOW TO STAY AWAY FROM MASTURBATION
Part 02 of 02
1️⃣ EXPLANATION: Masturbation is erotic stimulation of the sex organ often to feel orgasm by oneself.
It is said: Men stimulate their sex organ to reach orgasm while women too finger their sex organ to reach orgasm.
Honestly most of the following people are into masturbation:
young boys and girls, men and women who are not married, those who are married Already but facing problem of distance marriage etc...
2️⃣ WHAT CAUSES SOMEONE TO MASTURBATE?
Honestly, so long as we are mankind, it will get to some stage in life the sexual reactions arise.
This mostly happen expecially when you put your mind on thinking of sex, or when you read, watch or listen to sexual activities.
When this keeps on happening for sometime, you may easily end up committing masturbation expecially if you are not married.
And to the married ones too, whenever one is facing problem of distance marriage, he/she too could end up committing masturbation.
Masturbation is mostly done to quench the sexual feelings when one fear of committing Zina.
3️⃣ EFFECT OF MASTURBATION:
If someone become addicted to masturbation, this could lead him/her to Zina. Because masturbation is the lesser sin while Zina is the mother sin.
Also to the married ones, masturbation could damage or collapse your relationship to your husband/wife, because it won't make you feel like going to your partner anymore, and you will be like *"if he/she is not with me, I won't mind because I will satisfy myself"*
Also, you will not see any better reason why you should marry, expecially if you are single and when you marry and meet your partner you will not even feel any better pleasure (orgasms) when you have sex.
Now looking at health effect; some Doctors says it can cause problem to your eye sight, weaknesses of the sex organ, infections and other serious sickness.
4️⃣ PROHIBITION FROM THE QURAN & HADITH
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence:
Al-Imam Shafi'i stated that is forbidden based on the following verses:
"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for them, they are free from blame."
"But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors."
Suratul Muminun 23:5-7.
Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts including masturbation except for the wives/husband. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor (a sinner).
Some scholars used as evidence the ayah:
"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty."
Suratul Nur 24:33
This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient and stay away from any sexual act such as Zina or masturbation until Allah enriches them of His bounty.
https://t.me/GlobalIslamicAwarness/10747