THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaum Al-Khamis, 9th day of Rabeeu ath-thaani 1444AH (Thursday 3rd November. 2022).
THE SATANIC START TO OUR MARRIAGES. BismilLah.
We all know the importance of marriage in Islam. I believe every one wants to find the right partner to be their companion but have you both decided how to Islamically get married to please ALLAH? Well if both doesn't plan well to please ALLAH, you will end up planning to please Satan as many does today especially in Africa. We start dating and sleeping with each other before the marriage as the man wants to taste/try her first, Astaghfirullah, that's haraam my dear brothers and especially sisters, why do you make yourself so cheap to a man? Even if he intends marrying you, he must wait till after the marriage that's to respect your dignity and seeking ALLAH'S support. If he can't wait till after marriage please show him the red card for ALLAH sake and ALLAH will provide the better brother for you.
Secondly, my other worry is how marriages are organized today. Why haraam music? Why inter-mixing dancing in public? Why are you wearing wedding dress showing off your chest, hands, neck etc? Don't you know all these are haraam? If you know then why are you starting something halaal with haraam activities? Why are you blaming your grandmother etc for your marriage problems whilst you started it wrongly? Please NOTE: He who displeased ALLAH for seeking the pleasure of people, ALLAH is displeased with him and those people are also displeased, for pleasing whom he had earned ALLAH'S displeasure. And he who pleases ALLAH, although by it he displeased people, ALLAH is pleased with him, and also those people whom he had displeased for pleasing ALLAH become pleased with him.
May ALLAH keeps guiding us all, forgive our shortcomings and protect us from any satanic influences. Aameen.