ASOF - 2021
ISLAMIC STUDIES DARASI NA 58
Gabatarwar-Abdulrashid Abdullahi,Kano
Maintenance and protection of Wife and Children
Kulawa da kariya ga Mata da Yara
Ayoyin alkur'ani da aka kawo a sama aya ta 4:34 na nufin Hakanan cewa miji yana da cikakken nauyin ciyarwa, sutura, gida, da jin daÉ—in rayuwar mata da yara ana kuma tsammanin ya kare su daga duk wani haÉ—ari na waje, da kuma tabbatar da su ingantaccen ilimin addinin Islama Wich zai kare su da aikata ba daidai ba bisa jahilci
Ayyukan matar a cikin gida
Matar ce ke da alhakin sanya gida ya zama wuri mai daÉ—i da farin ciki ga dukkan dangi. Don haka ita ce za ta kula da gudanarwar yau da kullun da kuma gudanar da ayyukanta. Miji ya kamata, idan yana da hali, ya samar mata da mai yi mata hidima ko fiye da haka don taimaka wa cikin ayyukan gida.
Koyaya, idan ya talauce ya kasa bawa, ko kuma idan matar ta fi son yin aikin gidanta da dafa abinci zata sami ladan hakan daga Allah. Bugu da ƙari yana da kyau ga maigida ya ba da rancen cikin ayyukan gida bisa la'akari da Hadisin da Aisha ta ruwaito. Lokacin da alaswad bn yazid ya tambaya me annabi yayi a cikin gida sai ta amsa
"Ya kasance yana aiki ne ga iyalinsa, wannan shine yiwa iyalinsa aiki kuma idan lokacin sallah yayi sai ya fita daga sallah"
Mace ta kula sosai da dukiyar miji duk lokacin da baya gida bai kamata ta shiga cikin gidan mazajen da mijinta ba ya yarda da su ba ta kiyaye farjinta da kiyaye mutunci
Ya kamata kuma ta kula da ƙananan yara kuma ta kula da horarwarsu ta farko da tarbiyya akwai wani karin magana na larabci "Alummu madrasattun" ma'ana mahaifiya makaranta ce wannan yana jawo hankali ga muhimmiyar rawar da uwa musulma take takawa wajen jagorantar sabon ƙarni zuwa kyakkyawa hali da koya musu darasin su na farko a rayuwa.
The qur'anic verses quoted above 4:34 means Also that the husband is fully responsible for the feeding , clothing, housing, and General welfare of the wife and children he is also expected to protect them from any external danger, and to ensure their proper Islamic education Wich will protect them doing wrong out of ignorance
Duties of the wife in the home
The wife is responsible for making the home a comfortable and happy place for all the family . She is therefore to take charge of it's day to day management and smoth running . The husband should , if he has the means, provide her with a servant or more to help with household tasks.
However , if he is too poor to afford a servant , or if the wife prefers to do her own house work and cooking she will get the rewards for it from Allah . Moreover is is good for the husband to lend hand in household tasks in the light of a Hadith narrated by Aisha. When alaswad bn yazid asked what the prophet did in the house she replied
" He used to work for his family , that is serve his family and when the prayer time came he went out of prayer"
The wife should take good care of the husband property whenever he is away she should not allow into the house men of whom the husband does not approve she should guard her chastity and keep a good reputation
She should also take care of the small children and supervise their early training and upbringing there is an Arabic proverb "Alummu madrasattun" meaning the mother is a school this draws attention to the very important role of the Muslim mother in guiding the new generation into good behavior and teaching them their first lesson in life .
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