ASOF - 2021
ISLAMIC STUDIES DARASI NA 59
Gabatarwar-Abdulrashid Abdullahi, Kano
Law prohibiting lol treatment of wife (Idrar)
Doka ta hana yin cutarwa ga mata (Idrar)
1- wajibcin kyautatawa matar aure
Matsayin Musulmi a matsayin shugaban iyali shine ya zama mai kirki da mai da hankali, ba mai kama-karya ba ko mai tsauri. ma'anar aure a cikin addinin musulunci, kamar yadda aka nuna a darasi na 52 na wannan darasin hadaka ce da ta ginu a kan kaunar juna, rahama, fahimta da kuma goyon bayan wannan ra'ayin an kara karfafa shi da ayoyin Alqurani
وَإِنْ طَلَّقْتُمُوهُنَّ مِنْ قَبْلِ أَنْ تَمَسُّوهُنَّ وَقَدْ فَرَضْتُمْ لَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً فَنِصْفُ مَا فَرَضْتُمْ إِلَّا أَنْ يَعْفُونَ أَوْ يَعْفُوَ الَّذِي بِيَدِهِ عُقْدَةُ النِّكَاحِ ۚ وَأَنْ تَعْفُوا أَقْرَبُ لِلتَّقْوَىٰ ۚ وَلَا تَنْسَوُا الْفَضْلَ بَيْنَكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌ
Kuma idan kuka sake su daga gabãnin ku shãfe su, alhãli kuwa(4) kun yanka musu sadãki, to, rabin abin da kuka yanka fãce idan sun yãfe, kõ wanda ɗaurin auren yake ga hannunsa ya yãfe. Kuma ku yãfe ɗin ne mafi kusa da taƙawa. Kuma kada ku manta da falala a tsakãninku. Lalle ne Allah ga abin da kuke aikatãwa Mai gani ne.
(Alkur'ani 2: 237)
Don haka kowane ɗayan ya yi ƙoƙari ya guji ba da laifi ko aikata abin da zai sa ɗayan abokin yin nadamar auren.
Kur'ani ya kunshi ayoyi da yawa da ke kwadaitar da maza da su zama masu kyautatawa da karimci ga matansu kuma ba zan kula da su ba ko sanya acikin wahala rayuwarsu misali suratul talaq sura na 65 ayoyi 1-7 akwai kuma Hadisai da yawa waɗanda suke kari waɗannan ayoyin annabi SAW ya jaddada hakan
"Mafi alherin cikinku shine wanda ya kyautatawa matarsa"
Shi da kansa ya ba da misali mafi kyau na kyautatawa ga matansa
2- hana idrar (cutarwa)
Yana da kyau a lura da cewa a cikin addinin musulinci ikon saki yana hannun miji dangane da wasu lamuran da yawa wadanda za mu gani a darasi na gaba. Matar ba ta da ikon yin saki daya bayan daya, idan har ana cutar da hakkinta daga miji tana iya bin hakinta. Idan har shari'arta ta tabbata, alkali na iya baiwa matar saki ba tare data biya diyyar duk sadakinta ga mijinta ba.
kula da mata ana kiransa idrar a ƙarƙashin shari'a
1- the duty of kind treatment of a wife
A Muslim role as leader of the family is to be benevolent and a considerate, not dictatorial or harsh. the concept of marriage in Islam, as indicated in chapter 52 of this lesson is a union based on mutual love,mercy, understanding and support this idea is further emphasised by the verses.
(Qur'an 2:237)
Each partner should therefore try to avoid giving offense or doing any thing that would make the other partner regret the marriage .
The Qur'an contains many verses urging men to be kind and generous to their wives and not to I'll treat them or make their lives difficult example suratul talaq chapter 65 verses 1-7 there are also many Hadith Wich supplement these verses the prophet S A W emphasised that
" The best Among you is he who kindest to his wife"
He himself set the best example of kindness to his own wives
2- prohibition of idrar (harm)
It is tob noted that in Islam the power of divorce is vested in the husband subject to a number of constraints Wich we shall see in next lesson . The wife does not have the power to give a unilateral divorce how ever , if her right are being abused by the husband she may investigate . If her case is proved , the judge may Grant the wife a divorce without requiring the repayment of any amount of her dowry to the husband
The I'll treatment of a wife is called idarar under the shari'ah.
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