ASOF - 2021
ISLAMIC STUDIES DARASI NA 60
Gabatarwar-Abdulrashid Abdullahi, Kano
What constitutes "idrar"
Abin da ke nuna "idrar" "Idrar" kalma ce mai fa'ida ma'anar "cutarwa" kuma sun haɗa da sauran abubuwa 1- rashin kulawa: - wannan ya hada da rashin samar da wadataccen abinci, sutura da wurin kwana ga matar bisa ga mazajensu
2- Musun ma'amala: - wannan na iya shafar zamantakewar mata ta hana ta samun gamsuwa tsakanin aure dan haka ya karfafa mata guiwar aikata Zina
3- rashin dadewa da gangan - idan miji ya bar gida da gangan ya rude don ziyartar matar tsawon lokaci, matar ta rasa duka abokai da kuma gamsuwa da jima'i na aure Wandq shima cutarwa ne a gare ta.
4- duka mara izini: Duk da cewa ba a hana yin duka da haske ga matar ba idan ta kasance mai yawan aikata mummunan aiki, kuma ta ƙi amsa wasu nau'ikan da aka wajabta na kwanciya say da yawa kuma annabin ya yi Allah wadai da cewa bai dace da aure na musulunci. Akwai Hadisai da yawa game da wannan a cikin bukhari, Muslim Abu dawud, a cikin majah Al nasi'i da tirmizi Miji ba ya amfani da wannan ƙarfi na zahiri don tsoratar da matarsa ta mummunar duka, ko kuma doke ta kwata-kwata don ƙaramin laifi idan ya yayi haka, yana iya zama "idrar"
5 - shan kayan maye: - Ba a bukatar mace ta jure mummunan halayen miji da ya taso daga shansa da giya ko wani abin maye.
6- Zagin matar ko iyayenta: -
Zanyi maganin na iya zama na jiki ne kuma na jiki. Cin mutuncin ko wulakanta matar Wqnda ana ganin zan yi maganin ko da kuwa al'adar (urf) na mutanen da abin ya shafa, ana iya ɗaukar su a matsayin idarar a ƙarƙashin shariah.
"Idrar" is a broad term meaning "harm" and include among other things
1- lack of maintenance :- this includes failure to provide adequate food, clothing and shelter for the wife according to his men's
2- Denial of intercourse :- this could affect the wifes welfare by depriving her of satisfaction within marriage anf thereby encouraging her to commit Zina
3- prolonged deliberate absence:- if the husband leaves the home and deliberately rufuse to visit the wife for a Long period , the wife is deprived of both the companionship and sexual satisfaction of marriage Wich is also harmful to her.
4- unwarranted beating : Although it is not totally prohibited to administer light beating to a wife if she is gulity of gross misconduct, and has refused to respond other prescribed forms of correction beating was frequently and strongly condemned by the prophet as incompatible with the Sprit of marriage in Islam. There are many Hadith to this effect in bukhari , Muslim Abu dawud, in majah Al nasi'i and tirmizi A husband is not use this superior physical strength to terrorise his wife by severe beating , or to beat her at all for minor offence if he does so, it may constitutes"idrar"
5 - taking intoxicant:- A wife is not required to endure the bad behavior of a husband arising from his taking alcohol or other intoxicant.
6- Abusing the wife or her parents:- I'll treatment may be psychological as well as physical . Verbarl abuse or humiliation of the wife Wich is regarded as I'll treatment even by the custom (urf) of the people concerned, may be considered as idarar under shariah.
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