HOW TO WASH A DECEASED MUSLIM
Bismillah
This is a very important topic in which every Muslim needs to have an idea about, don't always believe that an imam will do it all the time, there might be an occasion whereby the imam will not be available, so what can you do in this instance? Let's read on
Preparing the body of the deceased is as follows:
1. When death is confirmed, the eyes of the deceased should be closed and jaws should be tied shut.
2. While washing the body, the ‘Awrah should be covered, body should be slightly raised and the stomach is lightly pressed to get the waste out of it. Then the person who washes, wraps his/her hands with a washcloth or the like, to clean the expelled remains from the deceased’s stomach.
Then the washer should wash the dead as in Wudhu (ablution) for the Salaat (obligatory prayer). The head and beard are washed with water and Sidr (Lote tree leaves) or soap, and the right side of the body is washed before the left side. The body can be re-washed three times, with the last one requiring plain water.
Each time the stomach should be pressed. If there is any excretion, it should be washed and the anus should be
covered with cotton or the like. If it does not work then use plain earth or any medical material such as plaster, then wash the deceased again as in Wudhu.
If the washer feels that three washes are not enough to clean the body properly, then he can wash it five or seven times. The body should be dried with a clean cloth and some perfume should be applied to the hidden parts of the body and the sujood parts.
It would be better to apply wood perfume (‘oud) to the entire body of the deceased,
The washer can clip the fingernails, and trim the mustache of the deceased, but should not comb the hair. If the deceased is a female, then her hair can be groomed in three plaits and placed behind the back.
3. Shroud the body of the deceased (Kafn.) It is better to shroud the dead man’s body in three white pieces of cloth without using a shirt or turban. The three pieces should be rolled up together. It doesn’t matter if the dead body is shrouded in a shirt, waist-sheet, or a wrap.
The woman is shrouded in five pieces of cloth; a loose piece of cloth (dir), a veil, a waist sheet, and two wraps. The body is shrouded in one to three pieces of cloth. A young female is shrouded in a shirt and two wraps.
4. People who are more entitled to wash the deceased man and pray for him and bury him are his male guardians e.g. father, the closest kin, and so forth. Similarly, female guardians are more entitled to wash a deceased female i.e. the mother, grandmother, closest female relatives, etc.,
The husband or wife can wash the deceased spouse, in the same way, that the dead body of Abu Bakr (r.a.) was washed by his wife. Ali (r.a.) on the other hand, washed the body of his wife Fatima (r.a.) on her death. *_May Allah forgive the deceased Muslims, grant them all Aljannatulfirdaus, forgive our shortcomings, and accept our hidden prayers_*