READ THIS IF YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED:
Do you want to marry an extremely pious, beautiful woman? One who will serve you day and night? a perfect cook who is obedient and always pleases you? she is a scholar of the religion? a waliyah who no man has ever set on eyes on? She will never argue, fight or be unhappy? she'll look after the kids, make them all Huffadh of the Qur'an, serve your parents all the time and never complain?
Sisters, do you want a man who is very handsome? A wali? strong? muscular? memorised the Qur'an and a scholar? He is wealthy? Not demanding? Willing to look after himself? Comes from a great family and is compromising, loving and helpful? He owns many cars, has a big balance and is willing to drive you around, take you to fancy restaurants, holidays and shopping trips?
Okay here is the what you should do: Make wudhu, go to your room, switch off the lights, go to sleep and pray for Allaah to bless you with a dream with someone who does not exist. Stop having fake expectations. Be real. Lower your demands. Be realistic. Marriage is when 2 imperfect people come together - whether in wealth, beauty and lineage - and they make it work, and they travel to Allaah together.
Do you want to marry an extremely pious, beautiful woman? One who will serve you day and night? a perfect cook who is obedient and always pleases you? she is a scholar of the religion? a waliyah who no man has ever set on eyes on? She will never argue, fight or be unhappy? she'll look after the kids, make them all Huffadh of the Qur'an, serve your parents all the time and never complain?
Sisters, do you want a man who is very handsome? A wali? strong? muscular? memorised the Qur'an and a scholar? He is wealthy? Not demanding? Willing to look after himself? Comes from a great family and is compromising, loving and helpful? He owns many cars, has a big balance and is willing to drive you around, take you to fancy restaurants, holidays and shopping trips?
Okay here is the what you should do: Make wudhu, go to your room, switch off the lights, go to sleep and pray for Allaah to bless you with a dream with someone who does not exist. Stop having fake expectations. Be real. Lower your demands. Be realistic. Marriage is when 2 imperfect people come together - whether in wealth, beauty and lineage - and they make it work, and they travel to Allaah together.