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Dan taqaitaccen rubutu akan halin da samari da yan mata suka tsinci kansu da sunan *soyayya.*
Allah ya kawo mu wani *zamani* da sai dai ace innalilahi wa'inna ilaihir raji'un, yanda samari da yan mata suke holewa san ransu da sunan soyayya abin yayi muni.
A zahirin gaskiya a yanxu yanda mutuwar aure da rigingimu tsakanin ma'aurata suke qara yawaita... wani aurenma ko wata baya qarasawa sai ace an rabu.
to irin wannan auren meye amfaninsa, ina qaunar? ina soyayyar da akeyi kamar za a cinye juna? duk ta tafi a banxa kenan?
Wannan yana faruwa ne sakamakon tun kafin auren an gama debe albarkarsa an gama sabawa Allah da take dokokinsa, an qulla alaqar ba don Allah ba, an ginata ba akan doron gaskiya ba, sai kuma uwa uba an gama taba jikin juna tas tun kafin auren,duk wadan nan su suke haduwa suke haifar da matsaloli bayan aure.
Sai dai galibin mutanen da hakan take faruwa dasu basu fahimtar ai ga abin da suka aikata kafin aure wanda shine silar jefasu halin qaqani kayi a rayuwar aurensu.
Abin mamakin be wuce yanda alaqar saurayi da budurwa ta zamo tamkar ta ma'aurata ba a wannan xamanin sai dai yan kadan da Allah ya tseratar.
ire iren wadannan abuwan da suke faruwa tsakanin saurayi da budurwa na *tabe taben jikin juna* kafin aure shine mafi akasarin abinda yake debewa aure *albarka* a yanxu, da zaka ga kafin aure saurayi ba inda bai taba a jikin budurwarsa ba ita ma haka, kuma wai duk da sunan iya soyayya da wayewa, waiyazubillah....
wadannan abubuwa su aka dauka *soyayya* a yanxu, shine wayewa da har wadanda ba sa yin hakan ake daukansu kidahumai wadanda basu waye ba, indai kuwa wannan shine wayewa gwanda kai zamanka baka waye ba dan yafi sauqi
Abu mafi muni shine sai kaga saurayi yazo ya dauki budurwa a mota su tafi sharholiyarsu da sunan wai shaqatawa, ita kuwa dama kwadayi, san abin duniya da rudin shaidan ya gama rufe mata ido saboda tasan in ta bishi za ta samu wani abu a hannunsa.
wasu kuwa ma a qofar gidansu yarinyar suke tsiyarsu, dan rashin kunya, kaga saurayi da budurwa manne da juna... sai anyi magana, yace,ai ba (sex) bane, menene dan n riqe hannunta! mene ne dan nayi mata (kiss)! mene ne dan na taba jikinta, a tunaninsu duk wadannan abubuwan ba laifi bane sun manta da *Allah madaukakin sarki haka yace kada ku sake ku kusanci zina.*
dan uwa /yar uwa shin kuwa kunsan girman laifin da kuke aikatawa? kunsan zunubin da kuke tarawa kanku yana da girman gaske? amma baku dauke shi a bakin komai ba.
Allah da manzonsa sun haramta kuma sunyi hani kan abinda kuke aikatawa...ga wasu daga cikin hujjojin da suke haramta hakan daga alqur'ani da sunna.
mu hadu a rubutu na gaba insha Allahu zakuji ayoyi da hadisan da suka haramtawa namiji/mace su taba wanda bamuharraminsa ba.
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