MARRIED WOMEN ON FACEBOOK

*MARRIED WOMEN ON FACEBOOK*
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*Both men & women [[whether married or single]] are expected to keep their gazes downcast unless if necessary BECAUSE our eyes is a WINDOW to the soul.. And what we see CHANGES who we are.. And who we are REFLECT what we choose to see.*

بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم 

👉 *Is there any way a married woman can be on Facebook without disobeying Allah SWT & Rasool (saw) OR engaging in sinful related activities?*

👉 *Does a married woman need to be on Facebook for any reason even if her husband approved of that?*

👉 *For the God-fearing types of married women,, is the RELIGIOUS benefits of a married woman been on Facebook morethan 15%?*

👉 *Does every husband whose their wives are on Facebook knows about it?*

👉 *How many husbands who knows about their wives been on Facebook are SINCERELY 60% comfortable with that?*

👉 *Does Islam permits married women to look at every NON-MUHARAM men [[Men with whom marriage is allowed]] and make ONLINE FRIENDSHIP with them?*

👉 *Statistically,, is the percentage of men on Facebook whose intention is to propagate the religion of Islam morethan 5%?*

🤷🏻‍♂ *We are not negating the fact that there are benefits of using facebook; however the harms of using facebook outnumber the benefits.. Allah says:*

وَإِثْمُهُمَا أَكْبَرُ مِن نَّفْعِهِمَا

*“Their sin is greater than their benefit.” (Qur'an chapter 2 verse 219)*

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*"The adultery of the eyes is looking at that which is not allowed " ~ Hadeeth from Abu Hurairah (RA) narrated by Buhari & Muslim*
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*Women are expected to follow the HIJJAB of the eyes strictly,, bcos lustful staring 🙄 at NON-MUHARAM men in many cases leads to lustful talk and flirting,, then meeting........ And we are all aware of what comes next🤷🏻‍♂.*

*Having friendship relationships of any kind with NON-MUHARAM Men is clearly denied in Islam.. And Even if you have a communication problem with your husband that lead you to do this (as some women used as excuse to kill time on Facebook),, then try to solve the problem with love and respect to your husband🤷🏻‍♂.. Yes.. Intermingling of the sexes and communicating with non mahram people on Facebook, unfortunately, has become something that some Muslims nowadays don’t consider to be a sin.. They consider it to be the ‘norm’ and say that there’s nothing wrong with it.. Allah, the Almighty says in the Quran:*👇

قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ .ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ. إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ
 
*“Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is acquainted with what they do. (24:30)”*

*UNACCEPTABLE PHILOSOPHY OF FACEBOOKERS*

*Some people may claim that merely looking at a photo of someone else is not harmful as long as one isn’t interacting with that person.. Habbahhh... There is a saying that "BUTTER NEXT TO FIRE WILL MELT"... Every person knows that they have their base desires.. The uncontrollable attraction to the opposite sex.. And what guarantee does one have that he/she will stop at just viewing the photo? That he/she won’t feel like interacting with the person in the picture?.. That because the woman in the picture has put on make up to try and make herself look more beautiful,, the NON-MUHARAM men won’t stop at lustful look,, BUT comment on the picture and eagerly await a reply?🤷🏻‍♂. And then when he feels the moment is right,, he’ll send a friend request?! And the more friends you have as FEMALE,, the more likely it is that you will end up looking at the pictures of non mahram people,, even if you haven’t befriended them yourself.. And this is prohibited in Islam.*

*Some married women may say~ ""I am only on Facebook to propagate the religion of Islam"" 🤷🏻‍♂.. But how many percentage of those married women do we have on Facebook? Are they up to 5%?*

*A D V I C E*

*It is better if married women can stop Facebooking completely for the sake of Allah SWT bcos the benefits of Facebooking is little compared to the havoc in it.. Many husbands who knows about their wife Facebooing behavior are not comfortable with it 100%.. Atleast,, that will remove the couples from SUSPICION BOXING RING😀.. Yes... Ur Oga (husband) will not stop suspecting u, unless u give Facebooking off completely... But if u can not surrender Facebooking as a married woman,, I adviced that:*👇

*(1) U hide ur phone number on Facebook so that nobody will have access to it,, bcos some sturborn men may disturb u with calls🤷🏻‍♂.. If u don't know how to hide it,, ask someone to help u do that.*

*(2) Remove all ur pictures uploaded even if u put on HIJJAB in snapping it.*

*(3) If ur Facebook account is already bastardized with irresponsible friends u are chatting with,, pls sincerely repent,, abandon that Facebook account completely and Creat a new one so that they will not have access to reaching u again.*

*(4) If u belong to any unislamic or useless group on Facebook,, pls quit immediately.. Enroll in Islamic sunnah group on Facebook to keep Urself posted religious wise.*

*(5) Each time u login to ur Facebook account,, don't SCROLL DOWN to see pictures & haram images shared.. Just go straight to ur private messages and notifications from the Islamic group u belongs to,, read the articles there and logout🤷🏻‍♂.. Even in those group,, any NON-MUHARAM man who disturb u in anyway,, block him.. The fear of Allah SWT should not be swept inside carpet in anyway & at anytime.*

*ALL DISCUSSED IN THIS ARTICLE TAKE THE SAME RULINGS WITH ALL SINGLE LADIES, DIVORCEES & WIDOWS ON FACEBOOK*

*Allah knows best*



سبحانك وبحمدك أشهد أن لا اله الاانت استغفرك وأتوب إليك


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